Is there a specific place where women should be picked? Is there anything wrong with approaching women in a club? For both cases, a big NO holds, but what does it take to become a guru in picking up any girl?
If you’re the kind of person that cares too much about what others think about you, then you’ll have trouble walking up to the same people you’re too conscious around. Picking up a woman when you’re too conscious about even the most indistinguishable things is walking up to failure.
Getting nervous is a natural and common thing, but you don’t have to wear it on your sleeve. Sometimes all it takes is breathing in and out a couple of times before you walk up to her.
Quite often and even in other situations, a pre-planned conversation may not work out the way you planned it to, and when that happens – you panic and “forget your lines”. The girl may not discern that you didn’t master the “script”, but your nerves will be too obvious to her, and making a score will be far from obvious.